Two Men

Virgle Kent November 26, 2012 Game 12 Comments on Two Men












Two men hit the town together to hangout and pick up girls. They’re both dressed well, look average and have decent jobs but most importantly know game. After catching up and chatting for a while it’s time to start talking to women. The first guy switches to another level and instantly starts opening up sets and getting into conversations with attractive women. The second takes a little while to warm up to the scene and needs a few more drinks before he can approach and start talking. By the time the second guy gets into the mood to approach the first already has a number. They decide to go to a second spot where the both go in on a two attractive girls at the bar. The first guy picks up on a Russian accent from one of the girls and soon drops a few words and phrases to show he’s been studying. The girl lightly teases him about his pronunciation but her and her friend are impressed he’s learning. The second guy doesn’t really have much to add to the conversation so he bows out to go try and pick up more girls at a different part of the bar. The first guy ends up making out with the Russian girl and getting her number as well. Finally they decide to go to one last bar before closing. At this bar the first guy ends up dancing with a girl who feels up he stomach and arms and is impressed with his body. With that in mind and the music and alcohol mixing together they make out and she goes back to his place. The second guy ends up dancing with a girl but not much happens. He makes out but can’t close or get her number, there just wasn’t  enough time to build attraction.

Even though they are similar on the outside and both know game, looking back on the night one guy clearly had more confidence and operated at another level than the other. So let’s take a look at each of their week before that Friday night. The first guy gets up in the morning and while getting ready for his day listens to learning essential Russian Pimsleur audio mp3. He goes to his 9-5 where he reads the latest game post from the PUA community. After work he goes and spends two hours in the gym staying in top shape. After working out he comes home and if time allows attempts to try a new recipe he can use later on a 2nd or 3rd date. He stays up to date on the latest fashion trends and is sure his suits are well tailored. Whenever he has a chance he practices game on as many women he comes across. The front desk girl at the gym, cashiers at the grocery store, flirts with co-workers. By Friday night gaming and talking to women is just reflex.

The second guy just goes to work and reads PUA websites, other than that not much else. After work he goes home and watches tv, surfs the internet some more reads a few books and goes to sleep. Some days he leaves work and goes to   HH with co workers and drinking a few drinks before going home.  At HH it’s tough to leave the work group to go hit on any attractive girls if he does see some. The highlight of his week are the weekends Friday and Saturday night where he gets to use his game knowledge to pick up women.

Most single guys that practice game are like the second guy. They know game works and have taken the red pill yet approach it as more of a hobby something to pass the time by during their working hours. They’ve been reading blogs and books for years but have barely improved to having a long conversation with decent looking women. Hell they have a better chance of flipping a coin to get laid. At the end of the night or the next day guy number two will be frustrated and wonder why he isn’t doing as well as the first guy. Why does it take him longer to come up with responses to questions and to come up with things to say to keep the interaction going forward.

Game is not a switch that you turn on when you feel like it then all of a sudden pull hot chicks, get numbers and have a one night stand. When you decide that this is the life you want to live then every day is about game. You’re practicing it on a daily basis. You’re making sure you’re in the best shape possible to give yourself that slight edge over the next guy, you dress the part, you’re studying and learning different things to stand out and be interesting. Pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone with game to insure  you’ll always have something to say when talking with women. A man’s success with game depends on everything he puts into it on a daily basis. Improvements are made based on repetition. How many approaches, how many dates, how many times have you been in similar situations with women before, how many times have you brought a girl back to your place and worked your way back to your bedroom. If you’re waiting till Friday or Saturday night after you’ve had six drinks to get good at game it will never happen. I don’t care how many game blogs you read and how much “knowledge” you think you have. The real work is done Monday through Thursday, often times when nobody is looking. Nothing is guaranteed but true confidence comes from knowing you put in that work before hand to be the best you could be at this moment when you step up to her and say hello. Everything else is just game theory.

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About The Author

Been in the game since 2005 and still learning everyday. But now I feel comfortable giving back and sharing wisdom with guys looking to improve one or two things in their lives that could increase their self confidence and the chance of having a favorable outcome in any romantic interaction with women. When you step to her you know you've already put in that work on your end. Nothing is left to chance.


  1. Keith November 26, 2012 at 1:47 pm

    Great post, VK! Game is more than just a switch. Feels like a job to me… You get what you put into it.

    • Virgle Kent November 27, 2012 at 4:24 pm

      True, keep putting in that time the payoff will come

  2. simba November 26, 2012 at 2:45 pm

    this is so true, as i read these game blogs i feel like i know the theory only. the practical of going out there and putting it to work is the most important. and the theory and practical of it needs the components of being interesting and living your life thus giving you confidence(working out,reading,learning language,having a sport,social life)
    I dont know how to open and keep the conversation going which goes to show i need to do more in my life then read game blogs and just learn theory
    I need help with practical on how to open and get numbers and learn to add theese advantages in my life

    • Virgle Kent November 27, 2012 at 4:23 pm

      I like to think of it like reading books on how to be great at poker…. whole other ball game when you’re at the table surrounded by pros

  3. ASF November 27, 2012 at 11:23 am

    Real talk, and I see myself reflected more in the second guy than the first, precisely for the reasons you outline. I think one thing you need to get good is desire, pure hunger.

    • Virgle Kent November 27, 2012 at 4:22 pm

      It all comes down to the hunger, if you’re not, why are you even in the game. Ya feel me?

  4. Jon November 28, 2012 at 3:51 am

    Excellent post man, long time reader. Like the 2nd guy you describe that has been me unfortunately. Partially because of a ever-changing work schedule that leaves me drained and laziness. I’m seeing tho w/ this new job better opportunity. Happy Hunting…

  5. simba November 28, 2012 at 2:13 pm

    you are totally right. i saw cute girl sitting in the today (after looking around to kill time) i sat down adjcent to her and joked “what happened you get kicked outta class”
    she looks at me(takin headphones out)…replied no just waitin for someone
    me(sudenly turnin back away (i know wtf)) an said killin time till my prof marks my work
    then that was it..silent…back to our electronic devices….i walked away ..came back later..saw her their took a seat after seein the waitinline to get marked was still goin….just said”poor girl still waiting”…..she looked at me an said nothin back to her phone
    actually tryin to play the game is whole lot different then readin the game…either that i came across as creepy

  6. Hedomystico December 6, 2012 at 9:34 am

    Well put VK… Took me a while to assimilate this, but now I fully understand that game is not some ‘magic spell’ you cast on that hottie at the bar. Its more than that… its a lifestyle, a mind-frame that carries you through all your daily endeavours.

    I would also like to congratulate you for the excellent job on the website… Truly one of the most stimulating and interesting resources out there.

    Keep it coming playa.

  7. Malik December 15, 2012 at 3:19 pm

    I would rather be the second guy. The first guy is obviously obsessed with the game is dedicating his WHOLE life just to build himself up for women. Having game is cool to get women but to the point where you basically dedicate your life to doing things JUST so you can get women is crazy. I would rather go through my life and LIVE it for myself and not a bitch and practice my game when I want to. That’s like the ultimate level of putting pussy on a pedestal. Females are really just one part of life and there are other things I could do better with my time then always preparing myself for women.

  8. Nomad77 December 15, 2012 at 4:59 pm

    Good post. This applies to everything in life. To be really good at anything it’s not enough to do it you have to live it. And most men simply don’t have the drive to do that.

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