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Cross Country Booty Call, How to

Every now and then you’re going to meet and hit it off with a girl that doesn’t live in the same city as you. Maybe she’s in your city visiting someone she knows or maybe the other way around. Often you’re both vacationing somewhere like say Vegas and both have to return to opposite parts of the country. However it happens you exchange information email or phone number and stay in touch because the high from your brief encounter was so strong. Communication goes back and forth and eventually it’s decided that you guys want to see each other again. Someone is going to have to get on a bus, train or Airplane and go see the other person. But how this goes down will determine if it’s going to be a great mini vacation OR if it will turn into a nightmare with a crazy chick you barely even know.

The above paragraph was the “romantic version”. For those of us who live in the real world and have a thing for fornicating it more likely happens like this. You meet as before but you most likely banged and had a fuck. It was good enough that you two decided to keep in touch. Now if you didn’t bang but still keep in touch then you’re soon sexting, and having phone sex or skype sex whatever. THE ONLY REASON YOU TRAVEL TO GO SEE A GIRL IS IF SEX IS GUARANTEED! Do not assume the bang is implied or in the bag. You need a verbal commitment that if you come see her or she comes to see you that fucking will go down. I’ve heard too many stories of guys flying a girl in or going to see a girl, assuming sex will happen only to be bitterly let down. I’d even go so far as to making sure plans are made knowing she won’t be no where near the time of the month on her end.

Now that it’s been established that the purpose of the trip will be to fuck and both parties are on the same page take steps to ensure it happens on your terms. Realize that before you get there you’re thinking with your dick. You haven’t really spent one on one alone time face to face with this girl, besides all the sexting and horny phone calls for all you know she maybe annoying as fuck in a regular setting or a crazy nut job that needs medication. Just follow these rules and everything should be ok.

First never fly cross country or leave your city for anything less than a 7.5. I don’t care how freaky she is or how hot the phone sex gets or if she promises to let you ATM her. You can easily find a girl in your own city with her looks that will let you do the same without wasting the travel money. If you’re anything like me, once you bust a nut this realization will hit you in the head and you’ll quickly resent her for you being there.

If you can try to have her come see you. Having home court advantage is crucial. If you go to see her and stay with her you never know what could go sideways. She could make you go out with her friends and her friends can turn out to be total bitches. If you do go out with her she may run into an ex or past hook ups. Worst case scenario she may turn out to be crazy but you’re stuck with her at her place for a few days. Also don’t fly her out, try to get her to pay half no matter if she’s coming to see you or if you’re going to see her. You want her to put some investment in to the meeting on her end.

Don’t go for more than a weekend or three nights on the first trip. You’re going to spend most of that time fucking and just the right amount of time outside eating meals at restaurants or maybe going out to a bar or lounges to get to know each other. For all the cross country booty calls I’ve been on you’ll be surprised how anything after three nights starts to feel like a burden to both of you, even if everything goes well but more so if there are issues that com up. But if you keep to a short stay this will give you just enough time for great sex and have her on a high when you guys part, looking forward to the next meeting.

Have a plan down if she’s coming to see you. Get any reservations put together, if you’re going to hit the town know where and plan with your boys if you’re going to meet up. Even plan on places you’ll run out to get a quick bite in between marathon fuck sessions. Planning ahead for everything will make the visit that much smoother and less stressful. Also she’ll relax more and let herself go knowing you’ve got it all covered.

If you go to see her have a back up plan where to stay at if things go wrong. Hopefully you have a buddy in the city she’s at, if not a cheap motel and even a fucking hostile will do the trick. This way if she turns out to be a bitch or crazy you don’t have to feel like a hostage. I once flew out to San Diego to bang this chick I already banged during a trip to Vegas. This is when I realized the air in the casinos make girl that much hotter. Anyway first few nights were great filled with banging and nice dinners out. But one night we went out with her and her friend. She proceeded to chat up another guy in the club and give him her phone number. I had no choice but to make out with her friend and finger bang said friend on the dance floor. Needless to say things where awkward for the rest of the trip. Honestly with only a few days left I would have been better off going to cheap motel and going out solo dolo in the city than staying with her for the rest of my trip.

Lastly flying back and forth and traveling for a bang is dumb when you think about it unless you have the finances. So even if the girl is hot there are still hot girls in your own city. Unless you’re really falling for her or finding that there maybe something there between you two. Make two or three trips max and let the whole thing fade to black. Like most booty calls a long distance one must come to an end. Stay friends on whatever social media you like and leave it on good terms so that whenever she’s in your city  for work or whatever or whenever you need to just get out of town for a few days you’ll have a place to go where the sex will be waiting.

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About The Author

Been in the game since 2005 and still learning everyday. But now I feel comfortable giving back and sharing wisdom with guys looking to improve one or two things in their lives that could increase their self confidence and the chance of having a favorable outcome in any romantic interaction with women. When you step to her you know you've already put in that work on your end. Nothing is left to chance.

4 Comments

  1. Roosh September 12, 2012 at 1:45 pm

    Three nights is the ideal limit until you start hating each other.

  2. Dagonet September 14, 2012 at 10:27 pm

    Agreed on 3 days max. I think 2 nights is ideal, one to get settled in and enjoy the novelty, and another to relax and feel more comfortable together. And after that, it’s lost its charm.

  3. Turner September 15, 2012 at 6:39 am

    3 is pushing the edge a bit..I think 2 – as you leave wanting more.

  4. Chris September 19, 2012 at 3:49 pm

    Just did a 2 day bang-cation a month ago….was excellent, and 2 days definitely got me the “you left so early!” texts afterwards.

    But what if there are very few 7.5s in your city?

    I go to a highly academic university so the nearest place with attractive women is 40 miles away at San Francisco – but unless I’m running day game, there are almost NO girls above a 7 in SF nightlife!

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