A Feminist in the Streets

Virgle Kent April 12, 2013 Game 9 Comments on A Feminist in the Streets

As many of you know I grew up in a house under a feminist. To be more specific my mother strongly believed in being independent and surviving on her own without “needing” or “depending” on a man. Anyone familiar with the African American community (or African community) in my case knows this is all too common. She also instilled the same ideals in my younger sisters. What I found very interesting was the two guys she did decided to settle down and marry when she got a little older after being on her own for some time (one passed away). Both men were ex-military badass Vietnam veterans who went on to work in law enforcement and or the DC correctional facility. Alpha males if ever they were one, my mom’s hamster couldn’t touch these men. They let her think she ran the show but once they made a decision concerning our family on any matter, their words were final and that was that. Till this day she’s still happily married to the second one.
















It’s interesting reading the manosphere and watching men complain about how American (read: white) women are becoming militant feminist and hyper masculine. Most don’t know how to handle it and calling for a mass exodus to find feminine women overseas (note: not a diss to my Roosh who hates American women beyond the fact of them being Feminist).  I sit back composed and chill because I know the truth behind this increase in Feminism, that 1) 90% of these so called feminist are in name only and front when their out on the streets (or writing for their little blogs) but behind closed doors once in relationship fall back to traditional feminine roles and 2) In the presence of a real Alpha even the most hardcore true feminist will bow down and play her position letting him lead.

While meditating on this article though I had to think about what are the real Alpha traits that would cause ANY feminist to fall back and let a man run the show. The first thing that became obvious is that this type of Alpha was a proven successful leader and the top man in his chosen field be it career or hobby. Whatever he does or likes doing he’s at the top of his game among other men. He’s also older and more mature than the feminist he gets with that lets him lead. Lastly but probably more importantly, this type of Alpha has the ability to basically upgrade the feminist’s life and make it easier from what she’s used to.

A lot of men are worried that if they get into a LTR with a feminist that they will act cold and hard through the whole relationship or it will be too much of a challenge to get them to settle down. I’d argue that once a any woman hardcore feminist is with an alpha male that displays the traits I mentioned above then it’s like she’s at the top of the mountain being with you, she grows accustomed to the role of being with an alpha and by his side, she’ll do whatever it takes to be about that life because it’s that or get older and go back to the dating market to find a guy with all those qualities that will still want her.

All of the points above can be summarized after reading this Jezebel article about Beyonce and Jay Z. In it the writer tries to take Beyonce to task for crediting Jay Z for making her the person she is today. Beyonce is quoted as saying,

“I would not be the woman I am if I did not go home to that man.”

The writer being a single feminist is so upset and cannot comprehend how such a strong and independent successful woman can simply give all the credit to being married to Jay Z. But looking deeper in her song choices it’s even easier to see the transformation that comes once an independent woman gives herself to a real alpha male. Given the assumption that she obviously doesn’t write “all” her own songs but does have the final choice in the songs she picks to sing and that are on her album. Back when she was young and single surrounded by a girl group she was singing Independent women and proud of everything she got on her own,

The shoes on my feet
I’ve bought it
The clothes I’m wearing
I’ve bought it
The rock I’m rockin’
‘Cause I depend on me
If I wanted the watch you’re wearin’
I’ll buy it
The house I live in
I’ve bought it
The car I’m driving
I’ve bought it
I depend on me
(I depend on me)

Now compare that to after she became Mrs. Carter on her song Dance for you,

I just wanna show you how much I appreciate you, yes
Wanna show you how much I’m dedicated to you, yes
Wanna show you how much I will forever be true, yes
Wanna show you how much you got your girl feeling good, oh, yes
Wanna show you how much, how much you understood, oh, yes
Wanna show you how much I value what you say,
Not only are you loyal, you’re patient with me babe, oh, yes
Wanna show you how much I really care about your heart,
Wanna show you how much I hate being apart, oh, yes
Show you, show you, show you, till you through with me,
I wanna keep it how it is so you can never say how it used to be!

If ever there was an obvious look at the effect a true alpha male has on a so called independent woman just check out the two lyrics above. Basically most of her last album is about how in love she is with the HOVA. I know most of you guys reading this right off the back are thinking, “Yeah but its Jay Z, he has enough money and power to get any girl he wants”. That’s why I think their relationship is a valuable look into an Alpha male actually getting what he wants.

I don’t want to rehash Jay’s life story here but for the 5% who don’t know, a quick timeline goes like this. Sold drugs, started rapping, sold tapes out the trunk, wore baggy jeans and sports Jerseys,  didn’t get signed so started and ran his own record label, started and ran his own clothing company (twice), had ten #1 albums in a row, started wearing custom suits and ties, quit rap to become CEO of Def Jam, came back to rap signed like 500 million dollar contract with Live Nation, crazy endorsements, now hangout out with Obama on the regular and makes throw away dis tracks at Marco Rubio. Although none of us can confess to going from a drug dealer to running a major corporation based off street smarts alone. The game path often expressed here at NLU of  self-improvement should be self-evident when you look at Jay Z’s life.

(from the streets)










To the White House











You’re not satisfied with where you’re at in life. You’re constantly improving yourself, making moves, climbing up, moving forward. If you own these traits and doing you, any blind feminist will want to latch on to you while you’re on your way up. All you have to do is let her know what it takes to be your girl. What you expect from her. You’d be surprised how many of these, “feminist” easily comply to the wants and wishes of a strong man. Everyone knows a girl who complains about having a girlfriend who used to be so fun and outgoing or ready to party and now is boring and only cares about being with her boyfriend or husband. That’s because the boyfriend or husband has it on lock like that.

Another point I made earlier is that the feminist’s life actually improves while being with an Alpha male because she trust him to lead her in the right direction. She trusts his judgment and comes to value his advice above her catty single friends and even above her own family. The bachelor from my Vegas Trip post is a project manager making six figures at a young age. His fiancé is starting out her career in consulting and his been with a great firm in the area. Recently she got offered a position with a smaller firm but paying a lot more money, there was a bidding war. She was hesitant on where she should go. He basically told her to go with the money laid down all the facts and she made the decision to go with the smaller firm. If you’re an alpha male you’ll find that often times the women you date start coming to you asking you to help them make serious life decisions. So back to Beyonce and Jay Z, I’d be interested to see Beyonce’s earnings after she started dating and married Jay Z. Would anyone be surprised if her earning were particularly higher? Who do you think is guiding her in the business decisions with her career? Telling her she should partner with this brand, telling her that promotional company isn’t paying her enough and to get with one that will, giving her lessons on branding and understanding her marketing power. Look at how Jay transformed himself; is it outrageous to think he’s not sharing that institutional knowledge with his wife?  Now knowing that go back to the quote she made, does it seem that outlandish or crazy?

So you can be the guy that runs around pooping his pants because you think feminist are taking over America and nobody will ever get laid or you can sit back and relax because you know the truth. In the end biology will beat feminism every time. If a woman has to choose between being a single feminist or in a relationship with an alpha male and doing what it takes to keep that alpha male happy everyone reading this knows what choice she will make 9 out of 10 times. You want to beat feminism… be an alpha male.


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Been in the game since 2005 and still learning everyday. But now I feel comfortable giving back and sharing wisdom with guys looking to improve one or two things in their lives that could increase their self confidence and the chance of having a favorable outcome in any romantic interaction with women. When you step to her you know you've already put in that work on your end. Nothing is left to chance.


  1. BuckInNOLA April 12, 2013 at 9:56 am

    No shit. Recently a cute girl I worked with put in her two weeks notice and decided to ask me out on her way out. I didn’t know much about her, so I Googled her and found this obnoxious liberal feminist Jezebelesque blog she’s been writing for the past 5 years. Ugh, but whatever, I thought, she’s pretty hot. Took her out and turns out she’s sweet as pie and never mentions any of that shit in her real life. And what does she want as soon as we get to bed? “Spank me harder, pull my hair, choke me and slap me in the face.” It’s all a show, boys.

    • Virgle Kent April 12, 2013 at 10:49 am

      LOL! Man, do you know how many of these DC bloggers Roosh and I ran through back in the day? Same thing, you would have sworn they would be one way based on their blogs alone but you get them alone, I was shocked how much they tried to impress me, how they were up for and willing to do whatever I wanted. This was my greatest incentive behind writing this post, it made me realize the difference between what is written on blogs and how girls “Really” are….

      Also the same can be said about “alpha” males on blogs.

      • Roosh April 17, 2013 at 4:49 pm

        You get some feminist ideals in foreign girls too, but in the end I stay for the aesthetic. They’re just much prettier.

  2. TGP April 12, 2013 at 10:41 am

    Good one. A man does his thing, goes all in, grows stronger every day, and the chick will follow. Always been like that, always will be. The rest (‘feminism’) is just philosophy that falls away like snow in the rain when a real man steps up.

    • Virgle Kent April 12, 2013 at 10:49 am

      “The rest (‘feminism’) is just philosophy that falls away like snow in the rain when a real man steps up.”

      just summarized my whole post… FUCK!

  3. fogal April 12, 2013 at 5:55 pm

    Wow even my dad mentioned this no matter the womans nature they will always want to marry….simialr story with this blogger whom was.learnin about women from this pakistani guy.
    I met some motherland africans like ghana nigeria sudan etc …they seem more conservative an lack the feminist thinkin.
    Roosh s parents were immigrants maybe thats why he has a harder time with american women (no disrespect)
    Since you grew up with it you knew how to adapt..brillant

  4. R April 12, 2013 at 10:45 pm

    Ya just gotta give them something to believe in.

  5. cakes April 13, 2013 at 12:30 pm

    Truest words you ever wrote, VK. I wouldn’t consider myself in the slightest bit meek or mild in general, and god knows I could snap a lesser man like a twig (not that I would want to!) yet being with someone who stands up to me has to be the biggest single factor in me being happy in my relationship. Previous ones foundered because the guy always, always was so eager to bend over for whatever little whim I had. I know that sounds bad, but you know, that’s women. You are going to lose respect for a guy who always gives in, and once respect is gone, well. Curtain time.

    So assertiveness, that’s really the most important thing: he doesn’t take an ounce of shit off me, he stands firm when he makes a decision if he thinks it’s the right thing etc. It shows a man has character. Believe me, a man doesn’t have to do a whole lot he doesn’t want to, once he has that single ingredient.

  6. Butter Naan April 15, 2013 at 5:13 pm

    Buck in Nola, “Recently a cute girl I worked with put in her two weeks notice and decided to ask me out on her way out. I didn’t know much about her, so I Googled her and found this obnoxious liberal feminist Jezebelesque blog she’s been writing for the past 5 years. Ugh, but whatever, I thought, she’s pretty hot. Took her out and turns out she’s sweet as pie and never mentions any of that shit in her real life. And what does she want as soon as we get to bed? “Spank me harder, pull my hair, choke me and slap me in the face.” It’s all a show, boys.”

    Nonsense. What one prefers in the bedroom has nothing to do with Feminism. Feminism is about the socio, political and economical equality of women (and everybody, ideally).

    Often times people who are in control of people and projects in the workplace like to give over control in the bedroom as a stress reliever. I learned this the hard when I had been dating a guy who kept hinting he wanted me to dominate him sexually, but I wasn’t quite getting what he was getting at since I had never heard of that crap before. Eventually I figured it out, with some help from the internet LOL, and we had to part ways since I find kinky sex to be corny as hell.

    MOST feminists are perfectly normal people with at least a modicum of social skills, and often times “sweet as pie” – as you say.

    We aren’t “mean” to people just because we believe in equal rights. Quite the opposite in fact.

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