As many of you know I grew up in a house under a feminist. To be more specific my mother strongly believed in being independent and surviving on her own without “needing” or “depending” on a man. Anyone familiar with the African American community (or African community) in my case knows this is all too common. She also instilled the same ideals in my younger sisters. What I found very interesting was the two guys she did decided to settle down and marry when she got a little older after being on her own for some time (one passed away). Both men were ex-military badass Vietnam veterans who went on to work in law enforcement and or the DC correctional facility. Alpha males if ever they were one, my mom’s hamster couldn’t touch these men. They let her think she ran the show but once they made a decision concerning our family on any matter, their words were final and that was that. Till this day she’s still happily married to the second one.
It’s interesting reading the manosphere and watching men complain about how American (read: white) women are becoming militant feminist and hyper masculine. Most don’t know how to handle it and calling for a mass exodus to find feminine women overseas (note: not a diss to my Roosh who hates American women beyond the fact of them being Feminist). I sit back composed and chill because I know the truth behind this increase in Feminism, that 1) 90% of these so called feminist are in name only and front when their out on the streets (or writing for their little blogs) but behind closed doors once in relationship fall back to traditional feminine roles and 2) In the presence of a real Alpha even the most hardcore true feminist will bow down and play her position letting him lead.
While meditating on this article though I had to think about what are the real Alpha traits that would cause ANY feminist to fall back and let a man run the show. The first thing that became obvious is that this type of Alpha was a proven successful leader and the top man in his chosen field be it career or hobby. Whatever he does or likes doing he’s at the top of his game among other men. He’s also older and more mature than the feminist he gets with that lets him lead. Lastly but probably more importantly, this type of Alpha has the ability to basically upgrade the feminist’s life and make it easier from what she’s used to.
A lot of men are worried that if they get into a LTR with a feminist that they will act cold and hard through the whole relationship or it will be too much of a challenge to get them to settle down. I’d argue that once a any woman hardcore feminist is with an alpha male that displays the traits I mentioned above then it’s like she’s at the top of the mountain being with you, she grows accustomed to the role of being with an alpha and by his side, she’ll do whatever it takes to be about that life because it’s that or get older and go back to the dating market to find a guy with all those qualities that will still want her.
All of the points above can be summarized after reading this Jezebel article about Beyonce and Jay Z. In it the writer tries to take Beyonce to task for crediting Jay Z for making her the person she is today. Beyonce is quoted as saying,
“I would not be the woman I am if I did not go home to that man.”
The writer being a single feminist is so upset and cannot comprehend how such a strong and independent successful woman can simply give all the credit to being married to Jay Z. But looking deeper in her song choices it’s even easier to see the transformation that comes once an independent woman gives herself to a real alpha male. Given the assumption that she obviously doesn’t write “all” her own songs but does have the final choice in the songs she picks to sing and that are on her album. Back when she was young and single surrounded by a girl group she was singing Independent women and proud of everything she got on her own,
The shoes on my feet
I’ve bought it
The clothes I’m wearing
I’ve bought it
The rock I’m rockin’
‘Cause I depend on me
If I wanted the watch you’re wearin’
I’ll buy it
The house I live in
I’ve bought it
The car I’m driving
I’ve bought it
I depend on me
(I depend on me)
Now compare that to after she became Mrs. Carter on her song Dance for you,
I just wanna show you how much I appreciate you, yes
Wanna show you how much I’m dedicated to you, yes
Wanna show you how much I will forever be true, yes
Wanna show you how much you got your girl feeling good, oh, yes
Wanna show you how much, how much you understood, oh, yes
Wanna show you how much I value what you say,
Not only are you loyal, you’re patient with me babe, oh, yes
Wanna show you how much I really care about your heart,
Wanna show you how much I hate being apart, oh, yes
Show you, show you, show you, till you through with me,
I wanna keep it how it is so you can never say how it used to be!
If ever there was an obvious look at the effect a true alpha male has on a so called independent woman just check out the two lyrics above. Basically most of her last album is about how in love she is with the HOVA. I know most of you guys reading this right off the back are thinking, “Yeah but its Jay Z, he has enough money and power to get any girl he wants”. That’s why I think their relationship is a valuable look into an Alpha male actually getting what he wants.
I don’t want to rehash Jay’s life story here but for the 5% who don’t know, a quick timeline goes like this. Sold drugs, started rapping, sold tapes out the trunk, wore baggy jeans and sports Jerseys, didn’t get signed so started and ran his own record label, started and ran his own clothing company (twice), had ten #1 albums in a row, started wearing custom suits and ties, quit rap to become CEO of Def Jam, came back to rap signed like 500 million dollar contract with Live Nation, crazy endorsements, now hangout out with Obama on the regular and makes throw away dis tracks at Marco Rubio. Although none of us can confess to going from a drug dealer to running a major corporation based off street smarts alone. The game path often expressed here at NLU of self-improvement should be self-evident when you look at Jay Z’s life.
(from the streets)
To the White House
You’re not satisfied with where you’re at in life. You’re constantly improving yourself, making moves, climbing up, moving forward. If you own these traits and doing you, any blind feminist will want to latch on to you while you’re on your way up. All you have to do is let her know what it takes to be your girl. What you expect from her. You’d be surprised how many of these, “feminist” easily comply to the wants and wishes of a strong man. Everyone knows a girl who complains about having a girlfriend who used to be so fun and outgoing or ready to party and now is boring and only cares about being with her boyfriend or husband. That’s because the boyfriend or husband has it on lock like that.
Another point I made earlier is that the feminist’s life actually improves while being with an Alpha male because she trust him to lead her in the right direction. She trusts his judgment and comes to value his advice above her catty single friends and even above her own family. The bachelor from my Vegas Trip post is a project manager making six figures at a young age. His fiancé is starting out her career in consulting and his been with a great firm in the area. Recently she got offered a position with a smaller firm but paying a lot more money, there was a bidding war. She was hesitant on where she should go. He basically told her to go with the money laid down all the facts and she made the decision to go with the smaller firm. If you’re an alpha male you’ll find that often times the women you date start coming to you asking you to help them make serious life decisions. So back to Beyonce and Jay Z, I’d be interested to see Beyonce’s earnings after she started dating and married Jay Z. Would anyone be surprised if her earning were particularly higher? Who do you think is guiding her in the business decisions with her career? Telling her she should partner with this brand, telling her that promotional company isn’t paying her enough and to get with one that will, giving her lessons on branding and understanding her marketing power. Look at how Jay transformed himself; is it outrageous to think he’s not sharing that institutional knowledge with his wife? Now knowing that go back to the quote she made, does it seem that outlandish or crazy?
So you can be the guy that runs around pooping his pants because you think feminist are taking over America and nobody will ever get laid or you can sit back and relax because you know the truth. In the end biology will beat feminism every time. If a woman has to choose between being a single feminist or in a relationship with an alpha male and doing what it takes to keep that alpha male happy everyone reading this knows what choice she will make 9 out of 10 times. You want to beat feminism… be an alpha male.