A Masculine Appearance

January 8 2013, By , 1 Comment

The new year may not be a time for you to re-evaluate your life and start making goals. A lot of men are happy to do so because it’s an easily-measurable time frame to work within. Some don’t because they feel like there’s nothing sincere about new year’s resolutions. Either way, today I want to tell you why – if you are making goals for the year – improving your style should be one of them.

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Many in the manosphere lament the idea that our corner of the Internet has become more lifestyle than bang based. What those dissenters fail to realize is that cooking, clothing, money, male relationships, and hobbies are all just as much a part of your game as approaches and DHV’s.

Back in the beginning of December Heartiste expounded on a scientific study elaborating on the different perceptions men and women have if their partner is fat. Essentially, it’s a bigger deal for a man if his woman is fat than vice versa.

The aesthetically lazy among is will point at such studies and sneeringly say, “ I told you a man’s looks don’t matter. It’s all about his Game.” Well, looks are game and there is a very real reason why a man’s weight does not have the same effect as a woman’s.

In order to understand this you need to apply the red pill to your understanding of clothing and aesthetics. Sedate your own rationalization hamster and realize that it is in a man’s best interest to pay attention to his appearance. Once again, men and women are different and this applies to their ultimate goals in getting dressed in the morning.

A woman – whose sexual market value is based primarily on her looks (beauty and attractiveness) is going to dress with those goals in mind. Everything a woman wears from high heels to mascara is designed to accentuate her femininity  and what makes her beautiful to a man and other women. Pretty basic stuff right?

The way the red pill applies here though is realizing that men have an entirely different goal when they show concern for their appearance. A man who accentuates his attractiveness is rightly considered effeminate, metrosexual, or girly. However, a man who invests an equal amount of time and effort into accentuating his respectability and social dominance will be seen as handsome, stylish, and well dressed.

Everything a man wears, from his suit to his military fatigues is based in either an aesthetic root that accentuates his visual strength or an historic root that increases his social strength. Either way, a well-dressed man looks powerful not pretty.

So here’s an easy new year goal for you. Any time you go to make a clothing purchase – whether it’s a pair of socks or a freshly-tailored suit ask yourself if this new item will increase other people’s perception of your respectability and power.

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span style=”font-size: medium;”>Men throughout all of history have placed a premium on their appearance. From tribal war paint, to Spartan armor, to boardroom pinstripes, men of power and influence know that their appearance can be used as effectively as any other tool they have in their arsenal.

About the Author:

Tanner is the author of the manosphere's most popular style blog - Masculine Style and runs his own style consulting agency. His focus is helping slobs dress better and metrosexuals look like actual men.

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  1. Leap of a Beta January 10, 2013 at 7:18 am - Reply

    The way I best took to this is the way I took to a healthy diet. Just like you should consider how everything you put in you will fuel you and add to your nutrition; everything you purchase for clothing should be considered for how well it will do it’s job clothing you and add to your fashion/lifestyle.

    The semi-formal/formal was the easiest, actually. It was so alien and fun that it was like discovering a new world. It wasn’t till visiting home for Christmas that I got comfortable in casual, yet fashionable, clothes.

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